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Australian Bush Flower: Relationship Essence

The following Case Histories have been provided by independent practitioners.
D. is my boyfriend of 16 months now and we have had a huge conversational break down since he came back from a 3 month holiday to America.

He talks all the time about going back there but not of where our relationship is going. I was getting upset and stressed out because I didn't know where I stood in the relationship any more. Whenever I brought the topic up he would just say "it's all good, it's all good" and change the subject. I asked him if he would like to be my case study for flower essences and he agreed with enthusiasm which showed me he was still interested in what I did.

Using muscle testing I came up with nothing from the sheets and was a little confused. Then D. turned the sheet over and asked me what the combined essences did. I used muscle testing for him again with the combinations and it came up with, surprise, surprise, Relationship Essence.
I made some up with the stock from work and told him the dosage rate.

After the first day we started talking about our passion - music. Then after a week he was talking about how much he missed me while he was in America. Then after the second week he confessed his admiration for me and expressed how much I have changed his life. He continued to open up about his feelings at any time of the day instead of just when we were alone. Our relationship has blossomed greatly on the communication side and I recommended it for any relationship. A. and P. had been together for over 7 years and were going through a difficult time. Although they still loved each other, they found it difficult to communicate their true feelings and they spent a lot of time arguing about the same things because the issues were never resolved. I recommended that they take 7 drops of Relationship Essence morning and night for two weeks.

Bluebell helped them express their feelings in a less defensive way. P. had put a block on his feelings and the Bluebell helped him to break down the barrier. Bluebell was also helpful for A. to realize that she often withheld her love because she believed that if she gave too much, she wouldn't have enough for herself. This belief possibly started as a child, feelings that there was never enough love around for her (her father worked abroad after her parents divorced for all of her teenage years and she was brought up by her mum). A. realised that she always felt she needed to protect herself.

The Bush Gardenia enabled A. and P. to renew their interest in each other instead of concentrating solely on their own problems. P. was more able to listen to A. because she expressed her feelings in a way he could understand. A. was also able to more fully understand the pressure that P. was under at work and except his "off hand" behaviour as nothing personal. One day, both bought unexpected gifts for each other as they had felt they wanted to give something to the other, something they had not been able to do for a long time.

Dagger Hakea was helpful to A. as she realised that she was resentful of the time P. spent at work. A. was able to talk to P. about these feelings and was able to admit for the first time that she was lonely. She began to plan what she was going to do when he finished and became more optimistic about their future plans. Boab helped P. to understand that he had negative traits that were similar to his father's. For instance, his father had always been critical and emotionally distant. P. realized that as well as being selfish, he had been this way to A.. In addition, the Red Helmet Orchid helped P. to "talk" to his father (something he had not done in a while). In the phone conversation, P. was able to put his point of view across very well and his father responded in a positive way.

P. and A. continued to take the essence for a further two weeks, after which they decided to stop as they felt that they had resolved their relationship issues for the time being. « Back